My personal story

Hello! I’m Mark, I’m 45 years old and I want to tell you why I decided to write this book.

The story I’m going to tell you is intended to shed some light on a very common problem among men. I’m Mark, I’m not a doctor or a psychologist, but I’ll tell you about my own experience. It took me years to find a solution to the problem of premature ejaculation. But hey, I’m glad to tell you that there is a solution. It’s possible!

The first thing you should know is that premature ejaculation is, in the vast majority of cases, a bad habit. It’s not a disease. It’s not a sexual dysfunction. It usually happens when we’ve had some bad experiences in puberty and we continue to do things wrong.

I suffered from premature ejaculation since my first sexual relationship at 17 years old. I didn’t know what was happening and if it was normal.. and I didn’t have a way to find out. I was very shy and didn’t dare talk about it with friends.

But be careful, if these tips don’t work, you could be among the 2 or 3% of people who suffer from it for other reasons, perhaps physiological. In that case, you should consult a doctor.

I started a path that lasted several years. I had one partner after another. And with all of them it was the same, sometimes it improved a little if the relationship was good, but almost always it was the same. Putting my dick in, one or two minutes and that’s it! Horrible! How can I cure that? Why does it happen to me?

Until a partner came along who told me clearly: you are a premature ejaculator. And I don’t like that. Find another partner.

I didn’t even have time to talk about it. Until one time, I decided to talk about it with the only person that we shy people can talk about these things: a stranger. Yes. I had to take a long taxi ride, about an hour and a half long.. and the taxi driver kept talking about sex and his great adventures. He seemed like an experienced guy. Until I told him my situation. And it was an excellent decision!

I received the first useful advice. He advised me to look for a sexologist or a psychologist with a specialty in sex. He was from the city of San Diego in California and had suffered from premature ejaculation and had been cured with this treatment. It’s very easy, he told me, in a short time you won’t believe how it changes your life. And I got out of the taxi.

What the hell is going on here?

The first thing you need to know is that premature ejaculation is not related to erectile dysfunction. It is not a health problem. There are premature ejaculators who reach orgasm immediately after inserting the penis into a vagina or an anus. And there are also those who ejaculate after 1 or 2 minutes. But it is also good to keep in mind that premature ejaculation occurs when you cannot control when you ejaculate. Even if it is after half an hour of intercourse... maybe you want to continue but you cannot hold out. I am not saying that it is most common to be hammering for half an hour. But not being a premature ejaculator means that you decide when to ejaculate, after 5 minutes, half an hour, an hour or maybe you want to have sex for hours, without ejaculating.

This is de point: Controlling Premature Ejaculation it does not mean prolonging sexual relations. It means ending whenever you want. It means ending at the exact moment you decide.